Attractive Communication

Essential thing that we use everyday to interact with people as human being is COMMUNICATION. Without communication, not only human as homosocious, but also all the creature would be extinct. How to survive by communicate with others isn’t the problem. Everyone know how to speak or even give sign. But, do people know how to communicate properly on interview, presentation, or even on stage and the other public speaking? As youth, I concern about this because I realize “this thing” is necessary on our life.

So how to communicate attractively?

The answer is 4B

1. Good Behavior

Manner is needed in everycase. Politeness is the best policy to respect others. When you give a good behavior, you give a good impression to your interlocutors. Presentate your inner goodness by your behavior and people will give a good feedback too. Behavior that I mean in this case also including gesture and vocal. In formal situation, give a calm, elegant and professional gesture and vocal but friendly. Hei! It doesn’t mean you have to pretend to be not-you-person. Keep be yourself! Just make gesture and vocal naturally. I suggest you to show up and look stunning only by your inner beauty in good behavior.

It doesn’t mean you have to pretend to be not-you-person. Show up and look stunning only by your inner beauty in good behavior!

2. Good Brain

Beside good behavior, we absolutely need good brain. Enrich your knowledge and insight. A perfect opinion is presentated by good behavior and good brain. Your good behavior will be imperfect without good brain and your good brain will be rude without good behavior. Especially in interview or presentation, please give the clever answer only. Try to make a positive sentence like express “No, I cant”with “I can a little bit and keep trying”. Also try to give expressive sentence to make your answer more clear and perfect to hear, like express “I like reading” with “I love reading”, and remember to explain your answer sufficiently like “Well, I love reading so much. I feel like reading is an activity which enlarge my view about anything.” With a little nod and calm smile as your gesture. I think it looks better.

3. Good Beauty

Honestly, we can’t ignore that beauty isn’t necessary. Good look can attract attention. There so much tutorial and tips in many site on google search how to make good look on your own. I prefer casual business environment for both formal and informal situation (of course I mean in professional environment only xD). There’s 5 level/ atter in casual business environment style. The level that we wear depends on the formality level of the event you will attend. Beside clothing, make up is necessary. In this case I love the natural one –nude. Anyway, please be wise on color selection of your appearance. C’mon, Go search and read more about it!

4. Good Brave

Last, the most important thing is Good Brave. All 3 above is essential in communicating, but this one is the key. Make a beautiful package of that 3 with Bravery! Be calm, confident and be yourself.

Yeah, that’s all I know about how to communicating attractively so far. Those ideas come from my own observation, experience and learning in my surrounds.

So far, as I was a participant of interview, project presentator, and master of ceremony.. I was confident enough with this way. I don’t know at all what people thought about me when I was an MC or the interviewer thought of me when I attended their selection. At least, I’m sure with this way and can smile all the day after I did it.

I hope you can feel what I felt.

Good Luck!